“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I get over oneitis so I can start socializing normally?

Vice

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Check out this thread for the full story. It's short.

So anyway, I've decided to chill and lay off this chick after we go to prom, but my question is this: how do I get these feelings out of me so I can be in state and not be too moody to start talking to other girls, like I'm going to tonight at starbucks?

I'm going to run to the bank and then to the gym to work out, get those happy little chemicals into me, and then take one of my girl friends and sarge starbucks for a bit.

Also, part of the reason why this girl is losing interest in me is because I'm rather boring to hang out with. Any idea on how to spice my personality up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MotownMack

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Other women are the quickest way to get over situations like this.

They are coming in and out my life so fast, oneitis is almost an impossibility.

Your g/f calling you boring is a broad stroke, don't go by one persons opinion. Have other people called you boring?
 

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MotownMack said:
Other women are the quickest way to get over situations like this.

They are coming in and out my life so fast, oneitis is almost an impossibility.

Your g/f calling you boring is a broad stroke, don't go by one persons opinion. Have other people called you boring?
She never called me boring.

I have called MYSELF boring. I don't have any cool friends to chill with because I removed myself from my social circle, and she's joined that social circle that I tried to keep her away from.

But tomorrow I'm going to try to make a bunch of guy friends that i can chill with so it will no longer be a problem :)
 

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There are two ways to get over oneitis.

1. Hook up with other girls.

2. Don't interact or even be in the same place as her. Out of sight out of mind.
 
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