"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I get out of debt?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ever heard of Dave Ramsey? He's a financial genius who teaches folks, just like you, how to get rid of their debt in the quickest, painless way possible.

If you have access to cable tv, you can watch Dave on the Fox Business Channel (not fox news).
Dave also has a syndicated radio show (The Dave Ramsey Show)...google it!

You'll be glad you did!

I was once in your situation,...and I am now Debt Free...Literally.


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e-lie said:
How would one go about getting out of 11,000.00 worth of debt for me consolidation is out of the question.Do I just pay it down ?Any programs you guys can offer?:rock:
Ever heard of Dave Ramsey? He's a financial genius who teaches folks, just like you, how to get rid of their debt in the quickest, painless way possible.

If you have access to cable television, you can watch Dave on the Fox Business Channel (not fox news).
Dave also has a syndicated radio show (The Dave Ramsey Show)...google it!

You'll be glad you did!

I was once in your situation,...and I am now Debt Free...Literally.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know why he keeps bumping the topic but every option has pretty much been presented, so if you haven't tried any of this in the 3 weeks the thread's been open then there's probably no helping you.

Spend less, save more, repeat. The end.
 
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