"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do I get out of debt?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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If you have access to cable tv, you can watch Dave on the Fox Business Channel (not fox news).
Dave also has a syndicated radio show (The Dave Ramsey Show)...google it!
You'll be glad you did!
I was once in your situation,...and I am now Debt Free...Literally.
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Ever heard of Dave Ramsey? He's a financial genius who teaches folks, just like you, how to get rid of their debt in the quickest, painless way possible.e-lie said:How would one go about getting out of 11,000.00 worth of debt for me consolidation is out of the question.Do I just pay it down ?Any programs you guys can offer?:rock:
If you have access to cable television, you can watch Dave on the Fox Business Channel (not fox news).
Dave also has a syndicated radio show (The Dave Ramsey Show)...google it!
You'll be glad you did!
I was once in your situation,...and I am now Debt Free...Literally.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spend less, save more, repeat. The end.