Juist wondering man, how can I get more people to reply to my approach journal? It's filled with tons of approaches but always gets overshadowed by other posts. Just doesn't motivate me to go out if people aren't going to give me advice on my approaches man. Funny thing is when you're complaining about your problems, people will reply in a jiffy. You actually go out and do sh *t, people completely ignore you. If you want to check my approach journal it's in my sig.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do I get more people to reply to my approach jouirnal?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Nobody's reading those DJ forums. They are filled with AFCs asking how to and what if. Fundamentally, seduction science is presented as a technique, you follow it and it gets you things. Nobody will tell you it's a state of mind you achieve by transforming yourself, and it's not about getting things, it's about you all the way. It's a way of living your life, and it is largely in your head.
Perhaps, a new forum titled "For AFC's only!" will do. Because AFCs won't post there.
Perhaps, a new forum titled "For AFC's only!" will do. Because AFCs won't post there.
Yeah, so far there are 10 approaches in that journal and there are even more approaches in an older journal. I've talked to a lot more girls than a lot of guys on this forum have. No offense to GamePlan or anything, but his approach journal is 4 pages and he hasn't really approached any girls yet, he's just working on saying "Hi" to people. I mean, it's good that the dude is trying to get over his social anxiety, but come on, 4 pages and he hasn't really even approached yet, compared to my 10 approaches and growing that no one replies to. Though Lust actually approaches and his journal is 4 pages, there must be something I'm doing wrong.
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Offer your target audience an incentive. Money perhaps . . . :kick:
You should only report CLOSES. Not just approaches/conversations. At least an attempted close where you got rejected or something.
How can you pick apart what works, if you don't try to close?
As actual closes aren't massively common, you probably write a FR thread for each one. Unfortunately, # closes don't come very naturally in High School.
How can you pick apart what works, if you don't try to close?
As actual closes aren't massively common, you probably write a FR thread for each one. Unfortunately, # closes don't come very naturally in High School.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've read some of your posts, and I think I even replied. Big props for doing cold approaches.
However, I think I lost interest reading your stuff because you don't really change up the approach. You don't take out the parts that don't work, or add new things to see if they do.. For example, you use the same joke everytime (did you fail a test or something?), despite the fact that it doesn't seem to get a laugh.
So you're meeting girls at track meets, but you don't seem to ask them about track too much. That doesn't make much sense. You KNOW this is one thing you have in common with every girl you approach, but you don't really use it.
If you actually changed up the approach and tried new things, maybe more people could get into it.
Post things that can be critiqued and that might work. Cause right now you do the exact same approach just to different women.
However, I think I lost interest reading your stuff because you don't really change up the approach. You don't take out the parts that don't work, or add new things to see if they do.. For example, you use the same joke everytime (did you fail a test or something?), despite the fact that it doesn't seem to get a laugh.
So you're meeting girls at track meets, but you don't seem to ask them about track too much. That doesn't make much sense. You KNOW this is one thing you have in common with every girl you approach, but you don't really use it.
If you actually changed up the approach and tried new things, maybe more people could get into it.
Post things that can be critiqued and that might work. Cause right now you do the exact same approach just to different women.