"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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e-lie

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I live in miami and their are plenty of schools you guys have ant tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The guys that get into that are beasts...any dude that roams around sosuave.net is not fit for that area.

Try something else. Tennis?
 

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Jlaix said:
The guys that get into that are beasts...any dude that roams around sosuave.net is not fit for that area.

Try something else. Tennis?
Hahaha good one.

Anyway, my brother is into the whole MMA thing and trains like 5 days a week. He's still working on his game and trying to get stronger. Then he will compete in some amateur tournaments and go from there. If you are really interested then find a good gym (shouldn't be that hard it's FL). I think American Top Team fights out of Florida.
 
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e-lie said:
I live in miami and their are plenty of schools you guys have ant tips?
You get invited usually, you need to have a good record and experiance from other organizations. Once you get a contract and win, your set. BTW what weight class are you?
 

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You have to start out in small local fights where they don't even pay money, just trophies, and they usually have some UFC fighters like Rich Frankin, Matt Hughes, Chris Leben, Melvin Gillard come to the shows and see if there is any talent fighting, and if you get good enough, it's not unheard of for them to invite you to come train with them. Matt Hughes and Rich Franklin are at the fights here in Kentucky on more than one occassion. Maybe because they live a couple hours away in Illinois and Cincy, Ohio. You have to be REALLY REALLY good though, like a champion at that low level to even have a chance really. You can't just be average. This is how it works where I live anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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