"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I get into Pride,Shooto,UfC?

e-lie

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I live in miami and their are plenty of schools you guys have ant tips?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jlaix

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The guys that get into that are beasts...any dude that roams around sosuave.net is not fit for that area.

Try something else. Tennis?
 

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Jlaix said:
The guys that get into that are beasts...any dude that roams around sosuave.net is not fit for that area.

Try something else. Tennis?
Hahaha good one.

Anyway, my brother is into the whole MMA thing and trains like 5 days a week. He's still working on his game and trying to get stronger. Then he will compete in some amateur tournaments and go from there. If you are really interested then find a good gym (shouldn't be that hard it's FL). I think American Top Team fights out of Florida.
 
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e-lie said:
I live in miami and their are plenty of schools you guys have ant tips?
You get invited usually, you need to have a good record and experiance from other organizations. Once you get a contract and win, your set. BTW what weight class are you?
 

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You have to start out in small local fights where they don't even pay money, just trophies, and they usually have some UFC fighters like Rich Frankin, Matt Hughes, Chris Leben, Melvin Gillard come to the shows and see if there is any talent fighting, and if you get good enough, it's not unheard of for them to invite you to come train with them. Matt Hughes and Rich Franklin are at the fights here in Kentucky on more than one occassion. Maybe because they live a couple hours away in Illinois and Cincy, Ohio. You have to be REALLY REALLY good though, like a champion at that low level to even have a chance really. You can't just be average. This is how it works where I live anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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