"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Do I game Hot and Cold Girl?

gaspipe

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Theres this petit 8.0 receptionist at my office who I think has a crush on me.

She works on a different floor and I see her when I get my mail in the mail room. These are the IOIs Ive noticed in the past few months:

1. She says hi when I see her.
2. She gives me long glances
3. Sometimes I catch her giving me the full body scan (when they look you up and down)
4. Ive caught her following me when I know she never goes that particular path.
5. She seems to show up in places I happen to be as if by accident.
6. Just the other day as I was going over my mail, she stood right next to me and I caught her gazing at my mouth.

However, just when I get the nerve to start a conversation she acts all cold and doesnt even aknolwedge my presence sometimes.

For instance yesterday when I was getting my mail, she didnt even look at me or say hi.

This is off and on. Sometimes she looks at me and when she does it is a deep kind of penetrating look. Other times she doesnt aknowledge my existence as if I did something wrong.

Another thing is she almost always avoids direct eye contact. Ive heard especially from shy chicks that this is a sign of high interest.

This kind of behavior has gotten me quite confused and wonder whether its a shyt test, some kind of game, etc, and if any of you reading this have experienced this kind of behavior from a girl?

This girl is super cute and need advice on how to approach this situation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If she's intentionally being hot and cold, then she's manipulating you, and you won't be able to game her. If she's not willing to make conversation, then she's not even gaming you, and you're probably focusing too much on sexually neutral body language that you wish really was an IOI.

The comment that you think she's following you just because YOU don't know where she's headed (in your words - you know she has no reason to be there), is pretty ridiculous if you two aren't even on casual speaking terms.

Any adult following another adult around is f-in creepy.
 

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Go up to her, smile and say: hi my name is ____. What is yours? Wait for reply and say: let have lunch sometimes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct

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Hot and cold are common traits of the Attention Wh*re or AW. Everything is on THEIR terms. When they want to talk to you, they're all over you. But when YOU approach, they go cold. However, AWs have one weak point: they HATE to be ignored.

Just go about your daily work. DO NOT approach her. You've already broken the ice with her. See if she approaches you and tries to converse.
 
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