"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Do I game Hot and Cold Girl?

gaspipe

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Theres this petit 8.0 receptionist at my office who I think has a crush on me.

She works on a different floor and I see her when I get my mail in the mail room. These are the IOIs Ive noticed in the past few months:

1. She says hi when I see her.
2. She gives me long glances
3. Sometimes I catch her giving me the full body scan (when they look you up and down)
4. Ive caught her following me when I know she never goes that particular path.
5. She seems to show up in places I happen to be as if by accident.
6. Just the other day as I was going over my mail, she stood right next to me and I caught her gazing at my mouth.

However, just when I get the nerve to start a conversation she acts all cold and doesnt even aknolwedge my presence sometimes.

For instance yesterday when I was getting my mail, she didnt even look at me or say hi.

This is off and on. Sometimes she looks at me and when she does it is a deep kind of penetrating look. Other times she doesnt aknowledge my existence as if I did something wrong.

Another thing is she almost always avoids direct eye contact. Ive heard especially from shy chicks that this is a sign of high interest.

This kind of behavior has gotten me quite confused and wonder whether its a shyt test, some kind of game, etc, and if any of you reading this have experienced this kind of behavior from a girl?

This girl is super cute and need advice on how to approach this situation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If she's intentionally being hot and cold, then she's manipulating you, and you won't be able to game her. If she's not willing to make conversation, then she's not even gaming you, and you're probably focusing too much on sexually neutral body language that you wish really was an IOI.

The comment that you think she's following you just because YOU don't know where she's headed (in your words - you know she has no reason to be there), is pretty ridiculous if you two aren't even on casual speaking terms.

Any adult following another adult around is f-in creepy.
 

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Go up to her, smile and say: hi my name is ____. What is yours? Wait for reply and say: let have lunch sometimes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mike32ct

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Hot and cold are common traits of the Attention Wh*re or AW. Everything is on THEIR terms. When they want to talk to you, they're all over you. But when YOU approach, they go cold. However, AWs have one weak point: they HATE to be ignored.

Just go about your daily work. DO NOT approach her. You've already broken the ice with her. See if she approaches you and tries to converse.
 
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