“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How Do I Game A Very Shy Girl?

evesman

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Actually, there's one more girl who was interested last night (I think). I'm in line at the bar. I look behind me to see if there's any hotties giving me the eye or proximity. Sure enough, there's a demure looking brunette wrapped up in a hoodie right behind me. Even though she is covered up, she is beautiful. She has perfect white teeth, beautiful complexion and face, and a reserved personality which turns me on ridiculously. I tell her she has a nice necklace.

We start chatting and introduce ourselves. As I extend my hand for a handshake, she squeezes my hand and holds it tight. She pulls me in and whispers in my ear. I do the same.

I start to give her some IOI's saying I like her shy personality. She seems to be come even more reserved. She folds her arms. I turn away. She starts talking to me again, but when I talk to her, she still seems very reserved.

Did I read this one properly? How would you have handled this situation? It seemed like I was getting mixed signals, and I just gave up out of frustration...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What exactly did she whisper in your ear?

Also... at first, before she became more reserved, was she enthusiastic to talk to you? Solid eye contact? Did you notice her being any less reserved with others after you turned away? It sounds to me like low IL or a heavy case of social anxiety.
 

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At first, she was giving me IOI's like squeezing my hand, and leaning in. But when I gave her some IOI's back, like saying I liked her shy personality she became even MORE reserved.
 

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Maybe she didn't like the fact that you told her she was shy? She probably felt embarassed by it. That's my guess
 

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Naw, man, we only talked a few minutes. I felt like she wasn't showing enough interest, or that she was giving me mixed signals, so first I ended the convo, she started it up again, but then I ended it again, when she didn't seem to be warming up to me as much as I wanted or expected...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There ARE no shy girls.

When their clothes are off, HELL BREAKS LOOSE.
 
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