“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How Do I Game A Very Shy Girl?

evesman

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Actually, there's one more girl who was interested last night (I think). I'm in line at the bar. I look behind me to see if there's any hotties giving me the eye or proximity. Sure enough, there's a demure looking brunette wrapped up in a hoodie right behind me. Even though she is covered up, she is beautiful. She has perfect white teeth, beautiful complexion and face, and a reserved personality which turns me on ridiculously. I tell her she has a nice necklace.

We start chatting and introduce ourselves. As I extend my hand for a handshake, she squeezes my hand and holds it tight. She pulls me in and whispers in my ear. I do the same.

I start to give her some IOI's saying I like her shy personality. She seems to be come even more reserved. She folds her arms. I turn away. She starts talking to me again, but when I talk to her, she still seems very reserved.

Did I read this one properly? How would you have handled this situation? It seemed like I was getting mixed signals, and I just gave up out of frustration...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Telos

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What exactly did she whisper in your ear?

Also... at first, before she became more reserved, was she enthusiastic to talk to you? Solid eye contact? Did you notice her being any less reserved with others after you turned away? It sounds to me like low IL or a heavy case of social anxiety.
 

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At first, she was giving me IOI's like squeezing my hand, and leaning in. But when I gave her some IOI's back, like saying I liked her shy personality she became even MORE reserved.
 

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Maybe she didn't like the fact that you told her she was shy? She probably felt embarassed by it. That's my guess
 

evesman

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Naw, man, we only talked a few minutes. I felt like she wasn't showing enough interest, or that she was giving me mixed signals, so first I ended the convo, she started it up again, but then I ended it again, when she didn't seem to be warming up to me as much as I wanted or expected...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannyegg4575

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There ARE no shy girls.

When their clothes are off, HELL BREAKS LOOSE.
 
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