"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I game a girl that's playing hard to get???

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OKay the topic pretty much sums it up. There's a girl in my first period that I talk to often. She and I are kind of friends, but nothing that would place me in the friend zone. I'm a pretty funny guy so I joke around with her some and I use kino with her a little. I get really good responses from this stuff, but she shows resistance. She isn't an attention *****, but it still buggs me. I'll say something like "Hey we're going to the movies tonight, wanna go?" and she'll be like "that sounds fun. Call me." and I say "Sounds like a deal, but i don't have your number." and then she says "haha too bad your loss."
She acts so interested, but then does that to me. I wonder what I'm doing wrong. Advice would be appreciated. Thanks a lot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like my situation. I honestly don't know what to do though
 
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Tease her.
push/pull technique.

You sound like you talk to her every class, keep it up for abit but then one day just totally stop talking, show her no attention. Shes playing hard to get because she likes the attention you give her and she likes you chasing her.

You have to turn that around, get her to chase you.

Use the push/pull technique, it has worked wonders for me.
 
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It's true, girls are masters at the game =P
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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listen to Triple T. in other words if she's playing hard to get you play more harder to get. things you do just follow that idea.
 
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Darth_Qurashi said:
haha, u should've been like "...umm.. im pretty sure its ur loss. ur not going to get to see the movie."
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That's gold! Rep
 
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I'm a sophomore in college, but from my experience, most highschool girls... When they are interested in a guy, only help the mans advancements on her... I used to think girls that weren't interested were playing hard to get... I realize now that they just weren't interested and didn't wanna hurt my feelings.
 
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It is important to tell if she's playing games or just uninterested.

I do know at least 1 girl like this, some would call her an AW. Stick to your guns. Keep acting like you always have, never chase her. If you outlast her, she'll be crawling on you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alright guys. Thanks for the advice. I have another girl that I know wants me, but she's a little too clingy. I guess I'll go out with her once and see how it goes
 
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