"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful?

thedeparted

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I am reviewing past couple weeks and want opinion on this:

I met a girl from online at a museum, then took her to another venue. Then I felt like eating but not something cheap like she suggested so I bought dinner. It was probably fancier than she is used to, she seemed impressed.

Anyway, at the end, she tells me she had a great time. I'm sure she did. She seems to want a kiss, but I'm not interested (at all) so I just shake her hand and tell her I'll be in touch.

A few days later I email but get no reply. I was hoping to LJBF her b/c she has some good contacts.

So, did she get offended I didn't kiss her? Is there any way to LJBF these women? Ideally these dates would add to my network, instead of being one-off's that go nowhere.

I guess I am asking, how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful, instead of just adding them to the pile of rejects that hate me for being too picky?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alphamale1821

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The best way to do it without telling her the typical "lets just be friends" simply hang out with her like a "friend" as in no sexual interest. She'll realize after awhile that you guys are just friends.
 

PlayToWin

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Yeah just hang out with her like you guys are already friends and avoid most kino and you will be friends in no time. Geez I wish I had this problem instead I have the exact opposite of way to many friends and not enough lovers.
 
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