"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful?

thedeparted

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I am reviewing past couple weeks and want opinion on this:

I met a girl from online at a museum, then took her to another venue. Then I felt like eating but not something cheap like she suggested so I bought dinner. It was probably fancier than she is used to, she seemed impressed.

Anyway, at the end, she tells me she had a great time. I'm sure she did. She seems to want a kiss, but I'm not interested (at all) so I just shake her hand and tell her I'll be in touch.

A few days later I email but get no reply. I was hoping to LJBF her b/c she has some good contacts.

So, did she get offended I didn't kiss her? Is there any way to LJBF these women? Ideally these dates would add to my network, instead of being one-off's that go nowhere.

I guess I am asking, how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful, instead of just adding them to the pile of rejects that hate me for being too picky?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alphamale1821

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The best way to do it without telling her the typical "lets just be friends" simply hang out with her like a "friend" as in no sexual interest. She'll realize after awhile that you guys are just friends.
 

PlayToWin

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Yeah just hang out with her like you guys are already friends and avoid most kino and you will be friends in no time. Geez I wish I had this problem instead I have the exact opposite of way to many friends and not enough lovers.
 
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