"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do i find people to chill with?

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Right now, I do have a group of friends but I don't feel that close to any of them and when they go out they never invite me. I don't really like a few people in that group because they're extremely arrogant and try to act tough when they are actually pussies. I want to find new guy friends to hang out with but not only are most of the guys in my classes nerds (because I am in all smart classes) but the few cool guys in the classes already have groups of friends and they are always together in class and it'd feel weird to just walk up to the group and try to join in the convo. How can I find new people to hang out with?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Clownpaint

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First off, you shouldn't give a fvck about not being in a group.

Secondly, if you're a smart guy, hopefully, you will have some strong views on something. For me, this is how I stamped my authority at my new school. I take Gov and Pol and I got a bold political statement in as early as possible and people like listening to me and respect my opinion and all that. This isn't the reason alone, but it did catalyze the process fur mich.
 

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Originally posted by Clownpaint
First off, you shouldn't give a fvck about not being in a group.

Secondly, if you're a smart guy, hopefully, you will have some strong views on something. For me, this is how I stamped my authority at my new school. I take Gov and Pol and I got a bold political statement in as early as possible and people like listening to me and respect my opinion and all that. This isn't the reason alone, but it did catalyze the process fur mich.
agreed. You should be independent, confident, and ****y. The key is not to give a damn. Don't just act like it, females are like lions, they can sense that.

use your talents man. Being smart isn't a curse, its a gift. "tutor" a less applied and much hotter chick. Get kino and work the conversation. Man being smart has such a big ass upside because the chick never sees it coming; they expect to be swept off their feet by the quarterback when its actually the quiet kid sitting next to them in Alg. 2
 
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