"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do i find people to chill with?

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taiwanesedude227

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Right now, I do have a group of friends but I don't feel that close to any of them and when they go out they never invite me. I don't really like a few people in that group because they're extremely arrogant and try to act tough when they are actually pussies. I want to find new guy friends to hang out with but not only are most of the guys in my classes nerds (because I am in all smart classes) but the few cool guys in the classes already have groups of friends and they are always together in class and it'd feel weird to just walk up to the group and try to join in the convo. How can I find new people to hang out with?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First off, you shouldn't give a fvck about not being in a group.

Secondly, if you're a smart guy, hopefully, you will have some strong views on something. For me, this is how I stamped my authority at my new school. I take Gov and Pol and I got a bold political statement in as early as possible and people like listening to me and respect my opinion and all that. This isn't the reason alone, but it did catalyze the process fur mich.
 
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Originally posted by Clownpaint
First off, you shouldn't give a fvck about not being in a group.

Secondly, if you're a smart guy, hopefully, you will have some strong views on something. For me, this is how I stamped my authority at my new school. I take Gov and Pol and I got a bold political statement in as early as possible and people like listening to me and respect my opinion and all that. This isn't the reason alone, but it did catalyze the process fur mich.
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agreed. You should be independent, confident, and ****y. The key is not to give a damn. Don't just act like it, females are like lions, they can sense that.

use your talents man. Being smart isn't a curse, its a gift. "tutor" a less applied and much hotter chick. Get kino and work the conversation. Man being smart has such a big ass upside because the chick never sees it coming; they expect to be swept off their feet by the quarterback when its actually the quiet kid sitting next to them in Alg. 2
 
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