"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I do it? (The struggle)

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I have a problem and the problem is talking to too many girls? Yeah weird right.. Well it's gotten out of hand. Recently I hopped in a relationship (probably not my best idea)but I felt as if I needed to slow down a little bit but It's really become a habit now to talk to so many girls at once. This is the part I'm going to hate typing. This girl I talked to before she moved is coming back into town soon and I started talking to her again. SHE ASKED ME I thought you'd have a girlfriend by now and I said no KNOWING THAT I DID. Eventually, a few days later she hears I do and asks her. Oops. I own up to it and say yeah you know what yeah I do, she's mad. 10 minutes later I get a call from.. Yeah you guessed, it my girlfriend! Tell her that we stopped talking before we dated, again a lie. She bought it I guess. I told her to believe what you want, but I mean I feel like an ass. I need some suggestions or some **** because I think this is becoming a problem. Most dudes here cry about some ***** but Im throwing some diversity out here and throw you forum gurus a curveball. Thanks guys :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol this isnt a problem at all. Just stop getting into relationships. They're a massive waste of time at your age. Girls your age arent relationship material anyways.
 
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No offense but you sound like a young and immature player type not fit for relationships (YET) since your eyes and 'other' brain wanders too much even when you THINK you have a girlfriend.

You are the type of guy who breaks young girl's heart over and over, and when that girl becomes a woman in her mid 20's and 30's -someone on this forum starts screaming, "OM-FUKKIN-G! I was involved with a BPD!!".....

This is purely my personal opinion and value, but don't regret too many things in life as karma builds up and nobody gets away with anything in the end.

Don't cause unnecessary pain (damage) and hurt to people intentionally, this is true for all of your life to come with anyone you associate with.


Live life well.

Exodus
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you lie? That's the bigger problem.

Lying in general usually ends with more **** than its worth...
 
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Falcon said:
Why do you lie? That's the bigger problem.

Lying in general usually ends with more **** than its worth...
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And you see thats probably the whole purpose behind this thread
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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