"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I do it? (The struggle)

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I have a problem and the problem is talking to too many girls? Yeah weird right.. Well it's gotten out of hand. Recently I hopped in a relationship (probably not my best idea)but I felt as if I needed to slow down a little bit but It's really become a habit now to talk to so many girls at once. This is the part I'm going to hate typing. This girl I talked to before she moved is coming back into town soon and I started talking to her again. SHE ASKED ME I thought you'd have a girlfriend by now and I said no KNOWING THAT I DID. Eventually, a few days later she hears I do and asks her. Oops. I own up to it and say yeah you know what yeah I do, she's mad. 10 minutes later I get a call from.. Yeah you guessed, it my girlfriend! Tell her that we stopped talking before we dated, again a lie. She bought it I guess. I told her to believe what you want, but I mean I feel like an ass. I need some suggestions or some **** because I think this is becoming a problem. Most dudes here cry about some ***** but Im throwing some diversity out here and throw you forum gurus a curveball. Thanks guys :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol this isnt a problem at all. Just stop getting into relationships. They're a massive waste of time at your age. Girls your age arent relationship material anyways.
 
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No offense but you sound like a young and immature player type not fit for relationships (YET) since your eyes and 'other' brain wanders too much even when you THINK you have a girlfriend.

You are the type of guy who breaks young girl's heart over and over, and when that girl becomes a woman in her mid 20's and 30's -someone on this forum starts screaming, "OM-FUKKIN-G! I was involved with a BPD!!".....

This is purely my personal opinion and value, but don't regret too many things in life as karma builds up and nobody gets away with anything in the end.

Don't cause unnecessary pain (damage) and hurt to people intentionally, this is true for all of your life to come with anyone you associate with.


Live life well.

Exodus
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do you lie? That's the bigger problem.

Lying in general usually ends with more **** than its worth...
 
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Falcon said:
Why do you lie? That's the bigger problem.

Lying in general usually ends with more **** than its worth...
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And you see thats probably the whole purpose behind this thread
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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