"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do i deal with underconfident women

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first i have to say I'm really thankful this site its really helped me out alot

But there's one thing that I still wonder about how do i deal with under confident women. Its a problem because I'm in high school and nearly every women i know has some kind of confidence problem. So how do I deal with these women properly in order to game them, what i do now now is I be quiet listen and tell its
not true (because most of the time it's a girl that thinks she fat and ugly when really she isn't) so how do I deal with this without sounding like a afc nice guy [Confused]

p.s i think this has to do with society pressuring girls to be really skinny which really isn't attractive (I like curvy women lol)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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When a girl says: "Oh my god I'm fat." You say: "Yeah; but, for a fat girl your not bad looking." (With a smirk on your face.)

Just do something c0cky/funny to tease them. All girls play that stupid sh!t looking for validation from other people to make them feel better.

Or be the Nice Guy who says: "Oh no. Your not fat you are so beautiful."

Who cares man? All women have issues with themselves. Either tease them about it or just don't comment at all.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
When a girl says: "Oh my god I'm fat." You say: "Yeah; but, for a fat girl your not bad looking." (With a smirk on your face.)

Just do something c0cky/funny to tease them. All girls play that stupid sh!t looking for validation from other people to make them feel better.

Or be the Nice Guy who says: "Oh no. Your not fat you are so beautiful."

Who cares man? All women have issues with themselves. Either tease them about it or just don't comment at all.
Yeah, whenever my girlfriend says that she is fat. I just agree with her and say how fat that I am (I'm 5.1% body fat).

Annoys and shuts them right up.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wolf said:
Comic why do you have your signature as what seems to be an insult directed at you? Or is it?
It's an insult that made me laugh my @$$ off.

Anyone that knows my advice knows that I am accurate most of the time and that I have improved to unparalleled levels within my life (not just with girls, but in general).

Really, everytime i read my signature it makes me laugh.

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