"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first i have to say I'm really thankful this site its really helped me out alot

But there's one thing that I still wonder about how do i deal with under confident women. Its a problem because I'm in high school and nearly every women i know has some kind of confidence problem. So how do I deal with these women properly in order to game them, what i do now now is I be quiet listen and tell its
not true (because most of the time it's a girl that thinks she fat and ugly when really she isn't) so how do I deal with this without sounding like a afc nice guy [Confused]

p.s i think this has to do with society pressuring girls to be really skinny which really isn't attractive (I like curvy women lol)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When a girl says: "Oh my god I'm fat." You say: "Yeah; but, for a fat girl your not bad looking." (With a smirk on your face.)

Just do something c0cky/funny to tease them. All girls play that stupid sh!t looking for validation from other people to make them feel better.

Or be the Nice Guy who says: "Oh no. Your not fat you are so beautiful."

Who cares man? All women have issues with themselves. Either tease them about it or just don't comment at all.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
When a girl says: "Oh my god I'm fat." You say: "Yeah; but, for a fat girl your not bad looking." (With a smirk on your face.)

Just do something c0cky/funny to tease them. All girls play that stupid sh!t looking for validation from other people to make them feel better.

Or be the Nice Guy who says: "Oh no. Your not fat you are so beautiful."

Who cares man? All women have issues with themselves. Either tease them about it or just don't comment at all.
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Yeah, whenever my girlfriend says that she is fat. I just agree with her and say how fat that I am (I'm 5.1% body fat).

Annoys and shuts them right up.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wolf said:
Comic why do you have your signature as what seems to be an insult directed at you? Or is it?
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It's an insult that made me laugh my @$$ off.

Anyone that knows my advice knows that I am accurate most of the time and that I have improved to unparalleled levels within my life (not just with girls, but in general).

Really, everytime i read my signature it makes me laugh.

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