CadillacCTS
Don Juan
I'm hitting a club tonite, there is only one problem, im not a good dancer (not when I'm sober anyways lol). Any tips?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do I dance in the club?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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HAHAi am me said:
Man look around the club and when your in rome do as
You dont have to be usher raymond now
Dont step on her feet and just let her lead follow her hips
I dont dance much cause I find it awkward but I just usually stand behind her and let her rub her ass on me and move with her
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
southside pimp
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ur defintely a whiteboi no rythm!CadillacCTS said:
us blacks can dance we have rythm
CadillacCTS
Don Juan
I kno all about rythm, i make beats, the same can't be said about my dancing.
No need to be racist, god knows what kind of war would start on here if I made a gross generalization about white people doing something black people couldn't.southside pimp said:ur defintely a whiteboi no rythm!
us blacks can dance we have rythm
Learn a step and just let her lead. There is an article on OP about dancing, I'll try to find that later.
CadillacCTS
Don Juan
lol im not white anyways