CadillacCTS
Don Juan
I'm hitting a club tonite, there is only one problem, im not a good dancer (not when I'm sober anyways lol). Any tips?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do I dance in the club?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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HAHAi am me said:
Man look around the club and when your in rome do as
You dont have to be usher raymond now
Dont step on her feet and just let her lead follow her hips
I dont dance much cause I find it awkward but I just usually stand behind her and let her rub her ass on me and move with her
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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ur defintely a whiteboi no rythm!CadillacCTS said:
us blacks can dance we have rythm
CadillacCTS
Don Juan
I kno all about rythm, i make beats, the same can't be said about my dancing.
No need to be racist, god knows what kind of war would start on here if I made a gross generalization about white people doing something black people couldn't.southside pimp said:ur defintely a whiteboi no rythm!
us blacks can dance we have rythm
Learn a step and just let her lead. There is an article on OP about dancing, I'll try to find that later.
CadillacCTS
Don Juan
lol im not white anyways