"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do I convince GF to give me a lapdance?

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Bud_Fox

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I havn't asked her yet, but it's a fantasy of mine. I'd like her to dress up in lingerie/high heels/boots and give me a lapdance (Think of all the money i'd save, haha). The Lapdance would then lead to sex.

I have been seeing her for a month, what is the best way to bring up the subject? Will she be offended?

Has anyone here tried this with their girlfriend?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Daniel1982

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I have asked this to my 2 exes, and they both did, you just have to ask them. Just tell her the next time you hace sex "y'know what? I'd really love it if you could do me a lapdance"

I would go on the costumes, just yet, try to keep casual, as if the thought just crossed you mind. If she agrees, the first time, then you can later suggest the costume.

NOTE = She may have issues with her body, so you will have to make her feel comfortable
 
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if you want a lapdance, go to a strip club. some girls wouldn't mind (and be a little surprised at your request), but other will get offended that you're trying to make them your object.
 
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Bud_Fox said:
I havn't asked her yet, but it's a fantasy of mine. I'd like her to dress up in lingerie/high heels/boots and give me a lapdance (Think of all the money i'd save, haha). The Lapdance would then lead to sex.

I have been seeing her for a month, what is the best way to bring up the subject? Will she be offended?

Has anyone here tried this with their girlfriend?
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Have you already had sex with her? Its sort of unclear.....
 
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Aragon034

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just ask. most girls practice it anyway from what they've told me. i guess a more conservative chick might be offended.

hell i was once in a strip joint for a b-day party once, and the chicks we CAME with started swinging on the pole!

and lest we forget, how many girls are caught making webcam vids? or rather, how many AREN"T caught.


Grey_Fox_9: Your sig made me LOL. seriously.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grey_Fox_9: Your sig made me LOL. seriously.[/QUOTE]

LOL...I get that a lot ;)

Bud...I would say just ask her too. I might wait just a little bit longer but I'm betting she would be up for it.
 
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