"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I havn't asked her yet, but it's a fantasy of mine. I'd like her to dress up in lingerie/high heels/boots and give me a lapdance (Think of all the money i'd save, haha). The Lapdance would then lead to sex.

I have been seeing her for a month, what is the best way to bring up the subject? Will she be offended?

Has anyone here tried this with their girlfriend?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have asked this to my 2 exes, and they both did, you just have to ask them. Just tell her the next time you hace sex "y'know what? I'd really love it if you could do me a lapdance"

I would go on the costumes, just yet, try to keep casual, as if the thought just crossed you mind. If she agrees, the first time, then you can later suggest the costume.

NOTE = She may have issues with her body, so you will have to make her feel comfortable
 
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if you want a lapdance, go to a strip club. some girls wouldn't mind (and be a little surprised at your request), but other will get offended that you're trying to make them your object.
 
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Bud_Fox said:
I havn't asked her yet, but it's a fantasy of mine. I'd like her to dress up in lingerie/high heels/boots and give me a lapdance (Think of all the money i'd save, haha). The Lapdance would then lead to sex.

I have been seeing her for a month, what is the best way to bring up the subject? Will she be offended?

Has anyone here tried this with their girlfriend?
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Have you already had sex with her? Its sort of unclear.....
 
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just ask. most girls practice it anyway from what they've told me. i guess a more conservative chick might be offended.

hell i was once in a strip joint for a b-day party once, and the chicks we CAME with started swinging on the pole!

and lest we forget, how many girls are caught making webcam vids? or rather, how many AREN"T caught.


Grey_Fox_9: Your sig made me LOL. seriously.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grey_Fox_9: Your sig made me LOL. seriously.[/QUOTE]

LOL...I get that a lot ;)

Bud...I would say just ask her too. I might wait just a little bit longer but I'm betting she would be up for it.
 
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