"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I bring up becomming BF/GF status without sounding girly...

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It is clearly not a very masculine thing for a guy to bring up becomming gf/bf whatever, but over where I live, I guess thats just the way it is done. Maybe some girls will bring it up, but the one in question with me, will not. She told a friend of hers (who I am also reasonably good friends with) that she is waiting for me to tell her what I want...

So how do I bring it up.. I can't think of anything that doesn't (with me imagining myself watching from above) looking like a tool.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If she hasn't mentioned you ain't doing your work right...
 
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that doesnt matter. the point is, do you want a commited, no sex with other girls, no flirting with anyone, relationship?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ask her, "where do you see our relationship going?"
 
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unnamed04 said:
It is clearly not a very masculine thing for a guy to bring up becomming gf/bf whatever, but over where I live, I guess thats just the way it is done. Maybe some girls will bring it up, but the one in question with me, will not. She told a friend of hers (who I am also reasonably good friends with) that she is waiting for me to tell her what I want...

So how do I bring it up.. I can't think of anything that doesn't (with me imagining myself watching from above) looking like a tool.

Thanks
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Look into the component of the Mystery method involving Comfort and Trust. You should be able to use some of the "You've hijacked my brain." techniques to sway her one way or the other. The most efficient way to do this is basically to talk about yourself. Spend time with her, and have her form an emotional attachment to you using some classic escalation tactics (push-pull). Have a general plan, but leave lots of room for the unexpected. If you flip the right switches in her brain, she will be, for lack of better words, addicted to you.

-Damian
 
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