"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I bring this up tactfully?

Long2024

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If there's any chance of me getting into bed with a woman at a certain stage in the relationship, mentioning the following convincingly will make it a lock.
I am capable of maintaining an erection until ejaculating at least a second time. According to the multiple orgasm info websites I've scanned, muleiple orgasms with ejaculation aren't even possible, so it's a really nice skill.
So, having not yet had sex with anyone at my school (if I had, she'd do the talking), how do I steer a conversation toward this without it being creepy, and how do I make her believe I can do something so unusual?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PRMoon

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The only time I would mention something like this to a woman would be while sex was the subject of our discussion and/or before or better still during sex. Other then that what are you really looking for? I mean nobody is going to give you a standing ovation or something like that so why even bother? I'd just keep it to myself and bring it up when sex talk arrises.
 

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I can do that. Don't know if it's the kegels or if I'm just that horny. It takes me so long to bust that second nut though, I've never gone past 2. I've only brought it up with one girl; the rest just found out by experience. As the previous poster had mentioned, it was during sex talk. She asked how long I could go for and I told her as long as she needed. She responded with "What?!" and then I told her about it. But remember, words are nothing without action, my friend. ;)
 

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If you start mega-qualifying like this in bed, you can totally impress yourself when you rub that second one out alone.

Don't brag about sh!t like this, let her notice it and compliment you if you need that validation.
 

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Originally posted by seanchai
If you start mega-qualifying like this in bed, you can totally impress yourself when you rub that second one out alone.

Don't brag about sh!t like this, let her notice it and compliment you if you need that validation.
Fvck that advice; DHV by masturbating in front of her...TWICE IN A ROW. Women will be on your nuts in no time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First of all if she is not attracted to you then she isnt going to give a crap what tricks you can do in bed it doesnt change the fact that she is not attracted to you (unless she is a complete slut, if she is then make sure you wear 3 or 4 condoms) So I dont see how mentioning it to random people is going to help you.

Secondly it doesnt matter how long you can go for if you cant get her off it is just as bad, the goal in sex isnt for it to be a marathon the goal in sex is for both of you to get off so once again your talent isnt that great an asset.

Thirdly if any girl you have slept with has had sex with some one on speed or ecstacy then your trick is nothing cause certain drugs prolong your erection anyway.

I would rather be able to say to a HB "I can give you multiple orgasams" rather then "I can have multiple orgasams"

Oh and dont try and bring it up in convo as that just sounds desperate and lame
Good Luck
 
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