Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I bring this up tactfully?

Long2024

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If there's any chance of me getting into bed with a woman at a certain stage in the relationship, mentioning the following convincingly will make it a lock.
I am capable of maintaining an erection until ejaculating at least a second time. According to the multiple orgasm info websites I've scanned, muleiple orgasms with ejaculation aren't even possible, so it's a really nice skill.
So, having not yet had sex with anyone at my school (if I had, she'd do the talking), how do I steer a conversation toward this without it being creepy, and how do I make her believe I can do something so unusual?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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The only time I would mention something like this to a woman would be while sex was the subject of our discussion and/or before or better still during sex. Other then that what are you really looking for? I mean nobody is going to give you a standing ovation or something like that so why even bother? I'd just keep it to myself and bring it up when sex talk arrises.
 

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I can do that. Don't know if it's the kegels or if I'm just that horny. It takes me so long to bust that second nut though, I've never gone past 2. I've only brought it up with one girl; the rest just found out by experience. As the previous poster had mentioned, it was during sex talk. She asked how long I could go for and I told her as long as she needed. She responded with "What?!" and then I told her about it. But remember, words are nothing without action, my friend. ;)
 

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If you start mega-qualifying like this in bed, you can totally impress yourself when you rub that second one out alone.

Don't brag about sh!t like this, let her notice it and compliment you if you need that validation.
 

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Originally posted by seanchai
If you start mega-qualifying like this in bed, you can totally impress yourself when you rub that second one out alone.

Don't brag about sh!t like this, let her notice it and compliment you if you need that validation.
Fvck that advice; DHV by masturbating in front of her...TWICE IN A ROW. Women will be on your nuts in no time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all if she is not attracted to you then she isnt going to give a crap what tricks you can do in bed it doesnt change the fact that she is not attracted to you (unless she is a complete slut, if she is then make sure you wear 3 or 4 condoms) So I dont see how mentioning it to random people is going to help you.

Secondly it doesnt matter how long you can go for if you cant get her off it is just as bad, the goal in sex isnt for it to be a marathon the goal in sex is for both of you to get off so once again your talent isnt that great an asset.

Thirdly if any girl you have slept with has had sex with some one on speed or ecstacy then your trick is nothing cause certain drugs prolong your erection anyway.

I would rather be able to say to a HB "I can give you multiple orgasams" rather then "I can have multiple orgasams"

Oh and dont try and bring it up in convo as that just sounds desperate and lame
Good Luck
 
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