picard
Master Don Juan
how do I boost my self esteem ? I am in early 40 now.
Does anyone have good suggestion?
Does anyone have good suggestion?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how do I boost my self esteem ?
- Thread starter picard
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
IndianaJoneS
Don Juan
Go to the places that you fear.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
picard
Master Don Juan
ok. thanks IndianJones.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
What I personally do when I'm feeling down:
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.