picard
Master Don Juan
how do I boost my self esteem ? I am in early 40 now.
Does anyone have good suggestion?
Does anyone have good suggestion?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how do I boost my self esteem ?
- Thread starter picard
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
IndianaJoneS
Don Juan
Go to the places that you fear.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
picard
Master Don Juan
ok. thanks IndianJones.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
What I personally do when I'm feeling down:
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.