“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how do I boost my self esteem ?

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how do I boost my self esteem ? I am in early 40 now.

Does anyone have good suggestion?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Go to the places that you fear.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
 

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What I personally do when I'm feeling down:

1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.

2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.

3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.

4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.

5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.

6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.
 
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