picard
Master Don Juan
how do I boost my self esteem ? I am in early 40 now.
Does anyone have good suggestion?
Does anyone have good suggestion?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how do I boost my self esteem ?
- Thread starter picard
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
IndianaJoneS
Don Juan
Go to the places that you fear.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
Do things you would like to do but you don't.
Get out of your comfort zone.
Prove to yourself that you can do things that currently are behind your "horizon".
Do things that are good for you.
picard
Master Don Juan
ok. thanks IndianJones.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
What I personally do when I'm feeling down:
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.
1) Eat healthy and and exercise to improve your physical appearance. This is the big one, the key.
2) Get some things done you've been meaning to do but haven't.
3) Read some books, expand your knowledge horizon.
4) Find a hobby you're good at. I'm always looking for this and so far haven't found anything that I'm really good at yet, but there's bound to be something out there.
5) Talk to people, smile. Make yourself go through a whole day without saying or thinking anything negative.
6) Refer to 1) and do it again, over and over.