"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I become more appealing?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I find that I'm quite shy and was looking for some advice on conversation and just generally making more woman attracted to me.

For example, at work I can have conversations and lunches but that's about it. There was one girl who was pretty friendly, laughing a lot, stood pretty close to me a few times (she has a bf though).

But yeah, any advice?

Thanks
Maggz
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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libre

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Gain confidence; women generally like men with confidence. For this, multiply your activities and opportunities for social contacts. You can engage in sports; what is possible in your part of the world? Are there still Crocodile rodeos for young men wanting to show that they have the right stuff?

Do any activity that you will successfully engage in; it might be in playing a musical instrument, Croc chasing and wrestling, ... Multiply activities where you can socialize with women. Women will be attracted to you if you are a guy with different interests, activities and confidence.

Oh yes, and don't worry if all your endevors don't pan out right. You will surely crash and burn some times, but you should be able to pick yourself up and get going. These experiences will build your character.

Good luck and good life to you.
 

rakishness

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Become a movie star or any other type of celebrity. Earn millions of dollars a year. Through a HUGE party on a yatch....and invite HOT BABES to the party. You'll have instant appeal then.

I hope this helps.
 

LA_Chico

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Become Charlie Sheen bro!
 

Thomas94305

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Do the boot camp. You have to confront fears in talking with new people, can't get around it. Boot camp's the best medicine for newbies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LA_Chico

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but seriously bro, anybody knows to be more appealing you have to stuff your crotch with socks. preferably wool, it feels so fresh :)
 
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