"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I become more appealing?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I find that I'm quite shy and was looking for some advice on conversation and just generally making more woman attracted to me.

For example, at work I can have conversations and lunches but that's about it. There was one girl who was pretty friendly, laughing a lot, stood pretty close to me a few times (she has a bf though).

But yeah, any advice?

Thanks
Maggz
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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libre

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Gain confidence; women generally like men with confidence. For this, multiply your activities and opportunities for social contacts. You can engage in sports; what is possible in your part of the world? Are there still Crocodile rodeos for young men wanting to show that they have the right stuff?

Do any activity that you will successfully engage in; it might be in playing a musical instrument, Croc chasing and wrestling, ... Multiply activities where you can socialize with women. Women will be attracted to you if you are a guy with different interests, activities and confidence.

Oh yes, and don't worry if all your endevors don't pan out right. You will surely crash and burn some times, but you should be able to pick yourself up and get going. These experiences will build your character.

Good luck and good life to you.
 

rakishness

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Become a movie star or any other type of celebrity. Earn millions of dollars a year. Through a HUGE party on a yatch....and invite HOT BABES to the party. You'll have instant appeal then.

I hope this helps.
 

LA_Chico

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Become Charlie Sheen bro!
 

Thomas94305

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Do the boot camp. You have to confront fears in talking with new people, can't get around it. Boot camp's the best medicine for newbies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LA_Chico

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but seriously bro, anybody knows to be more appealing you have to stuff your crotch with socks. preferably wool, it feels so fresh :)
 
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