"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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noviceplaya

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I saw this girl that i find really attractive and i need help on wat to say to her. A first line or something. I have confidence, i jus dont have any "game", Can someone help me out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm no expert, but if you have confidence, then your game should come right along with it.

You don't need a line better than "Hi."

Unless you go to work/school with her, it's too late to see her ever again.

Just do it.
 
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siccmadeplaya

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hi is good if your up for a straight forward approach.

If not, make a comment about something around you. You go to school with her so this should be easily done. Classes, tests, teachers, whatever. See how she reacts and try to keep up the conversation, thats all approaching is, getting a convo going then closing for number.
 
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