“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I answer the question.. Are you seeing anyone else (and various versions)?

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drift king

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I've been going on dates and they keep asking me this same question, have you been on any dates since we last met? or are you seeing anyone else?

I know you are suppose to make it come as you have options without explicitly saying you do. I've been asking the same question to them when they ask me it i.e. ''ARE YOU seeing anyone else/Have YOU been on any dates since we last met?''

Her response usually is: I asked first.

I realize now I answer this question wrong. What should you say?

Also, I get this question.. ''So what did you do on Saturday?'' (as in you said you were busy doing stuff, i want to know what it is)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Usually just play it off with jokes, and change the topic.

have you been on any dates since we last met?
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Yes. Literally trillions.

or are you seeing anyone else?
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Had a lovely date with myself last night. Charmed the pants right off of me.

(Well, alluding to spending a night alone probably isn't "alpha" enough for the PUA community. But it fits my style of humor. And girls I date can sense that I have options."
 
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My answer: "What do you mean am I seeing someone else? I have girl friends I have guy friends, sometimes we hang out in groups sometimes alone. Some of them might like me. Are you seeing anyone else?"

I mean WTF is "seeing" someone?! Shes either your girl or not and that's all you should observe. You can never give up exclusivity just because some chick decides to let you buy her dinner. I hate that question because there's no wrong or right answer. YES makes you look like a player but raises her interest. NO makes you look like a one girl man and lowers interest. Wrong is right and right is wrong. I always get visibly annoyed at this question.
 
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Iceberg said:
Usually just play it off with jokes, and change the topic.

Yes. Literally trillions.
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Emphasize the word LITERALLY. And open your eyes wide, like a raccoon to further hammer the fact through their skulls.
They love that.
 
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