"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I answer the question.. Are you seeing anyone else (and various versions)?

drift king

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I've been going on dates and they keep asking me this same question, have you been on any dates since we last met? or are you seeing anyone else?

I know you are suppose to make it come as you have options without explicitly saying you do. I've been asking the same question to them when they ask me it i.e. ''ARE YOU seeing anyone else/Have YOU been on any dates since we last met?''

Her response usually is: I asked first.

I realize now I answer this question wrong. What should you say?

Also, I get this question.. ''So what did you do on Saturday?'' (as in you said you were busy doing stuff, i want to know what it is)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg

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Usually just play it off with jokes, and change the topic.

have you been on any dates since we last met?
Yes. Literally trillions.

or are you seeing anyone else?
Had a lovely date with myself last night. Charmed the pants right off of me.

(Well, alluding to spending a night alone probably isn't "alpha" enough for the PUA community. But it fits my style of humor. And girls I date can sense that I have options."
 

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My answer: "What do you mean am I seeing someone else? I have girl friends I have guy friends, sometimes we hang out in groups sometimes alone. Some of them might like me. Are you seeing anyone else?"

I mean WTF is "seeing" someone?! Shes either your girl or not and that's all you should observe. You can never give up exclusivity just because some chick decides to let you buy her dinner. I hate that question because there's no wrong or right answer. YES makes you look like a player but raises her interest. NO makes you look like a one girl man and lowers interest. Wrong is right and right is wrong. I always get visibly annoyed at this question.
 

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Iceberg said:
Usually just play it off with jokes, and change the topic.

Yes. Literally trillions.
Emphasize the word LITERALLY. And open your eyes wide, like a raccoon to further hammer the fact through their skulls.
They love that.
 
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