“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do guys who are druggies always seem to get girls who aren't druggies?

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Bible_Belt said:
It's project mentality. Women are thinking, "I can fix him." I know a girl who has a crush on a homeless guy. I told her it was project mentality, and she agreed.

To be fair, men who act as Captain Save-a-Ho are very similar.

:crackup:

there still has to be attraction for the guy by the woman, she isn't going to get turned on by some fat slob thinking she can "fix him" to get him into shape.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drug addicts can be fun. Fun and drugs are not mutually exclusive. If anything the opposite.

I've never been good with drugs personally they make me even more awkward than I already am. But I've done them enough and been around MORE than enough people to know that it heightens the good times and good vibes more often than not. There's a reason they are addictive after all.

Younger girls don't mind as much about a guy's present or future earnings potential. They live in the moment and a lot of these guys have good moments.
 

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Dealers are social conduits in a sense and can add that chaos element, plus there's the taboo of it being illegal etc.

If you are a coke dealer forget about it. You can have a small harem of women.

The reality is that you shouldn't be looking for drug user as a partner even if it is short term. The exception for me is weed but even then it's got to be a once in a blue moon type deal where the person doesn't do it but if they're an a music event they partake.

Women who are doing blow X heroin pills etc are quite dangerous for a variety of reasons: disease, mental illness, theft, etc not to mention you have to question they're ability to plan have kids etc.

Don't get me wrong most women have done some drugs at one time or another but the issue if they are still doing it or they use drugs to have fun.
 

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OP's question translates well to: What does she have that I don't?

Except this is okay for a girl to ask herself, they are insecure anyway and it's fine, because insecurity is a feminine trait. I understand, the druggie gets the chicks thing is more of an annoyance, but it's got exactly the same roots, there is jealousy and insecurity in it. Cherish the day when you will be out of fvcks to give, because that day, you will be a happy alpha. Look around you, the world isn't fair, people seldom seem to get what they deserve, constantly asking why did he get this and I didn't, why did they take him not me, why, why... it would drive you insane and depressed and even if you knew every single answer, it wouldn't help you forward.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FairShake said:
Drug addicts can be fun. Fun and drugs are not mutually exclusive. If anything the opposite.
This is the answer, I think. People on drugs can be very charismatic, they can get pumped up or feel great beyond what the normal person does, and the women buy into that.
 

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a lot of chicks i knew in high school and college smoked pot, some did every so often, maybe he's giving her free pot, who cares, focus on yourself and get a woman.
 
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