"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do guys who are druggies always seem to get girls who aren't druggies?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've never been good with drugs personally they make me even more awkward than I already am. But I've done them enough and been around MORE than enough people to know that it heightens the good times and good vibes more often than not. There's a reason they are addictive after all.
Younger girls don't mind as much about a guy's present or future earnings potential. They live in the moment and a lot of these guys have good moments.
VikingKing
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If you are a coke dealer forget about it. You can have a small harem of women.
The reality is that you shouldn't be looking for drug user as a partner even if it is short term. The exception for me is weed but even then it's got to be a once in a blue moon type deal where the person doesn't do it but if they're an a music event they partake.
Women who are doing blow X heroin pills etc are quite dangerous for a variety of reasons: disease, mental illness, theft, etc not to mention you have to question they're ability to plan have kids etc.
Don't get me wrong most women have done some drugs at one time or another but the issue if they are still doing it or they use drugs to have fun.
Except this is okay for a girl to ask herself, they are insecure anyway and it's fine, because insecurity is a feminine trait. I understand, the druggie gets the chicks thing is more of an annoyance, but it's got exactly the same roots, there is jealousy and insecurity in it. Cherish the day when you will be out of fvcks to give, because that day, you will be a happy alpha. Look around you, the world isn't fair, people seldom seem to get what they deserve, constantly asking why did he get this and I didn't, why did they take him not me, why, why... it would drive you insane and depressed and even if you knew every single answer, it wouldn't help you forward.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
