SirFratserlot
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Srs, things started going south after she slept with me one night.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do girls just lose interest and start playing games like that
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SirFratserlot
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No but we made out on my couch and she plopped herself on my bedmv.89 said:
This is inevitably coming, so let a nicer guy like me be the one to say it: the sex might've just not been that great for her 
Now don't get down on yourself and start googling articles on how to make her *** etc... It could just be that you guys aren't compatible sexually. Different people have different preferences. Maybe you did something that she perceived as weird. Maybe she's just used to a certain type of sex and sex with you wasn't particularly inspiring for her. Maybe she found it boring - but another girl will find the exact same kind of sex exciting and will come crawling back for more.
So fear not - remember the #1 rule about not getting too attached. It didn't work out. Let it go and keep hunting for the one you'll be more sexually compatible with.
Now don't get down on yourself and start googling articles on how to make her *** etc... It could just be that you guys aren't compatible sexually. Different people have different preferences. Maybe you did something that she perceived as weird. Maybe she's just used to a certain type of sex and sex with you wasn't particularly inspiring for her. Maybe she found it boring - but another girl will find the exact same kind of sex exciting and will come crawling back for more.
So fear not - remember the #1 rule about not getting too attached. It didn't work out. Let it go and keep hunting for the one you'll be more sexually compatible with.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SirFratserlot
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We didnt have sex because she doesnt put out unless in a relationship and that was her 2nd time sleeping over
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Judging by your post history, you are an attention wh*re.
SirFratserlot
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The first time she invited me over and the second time she just put herself in my bed
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guys he put the "srs" tag you know hes from bodybuilding.com.SirFratserlot said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
plate's_empty
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next time try fingering her butt hole.
SirFratserlot
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Da fuq that got to do with anythingJohnChops said:
Smell The Glove
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Tell her you don't go exclusive with girls you haven't slept with yet.SirFratserlot said: