SirFratserlot
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Srs, things started going south after she slept with me one night.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do girls just lose interest and start playing games like that
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SirFratserlot
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No but we made out on my couch and she plopped herself on my bedmv.89 said:
This is inevitably coming, so let a nicer guy like me be the one to say it: the sex might've just not been that great for her 
Now don't get down on yourself and start googling articles on how to make her *** etc... It could just be that you guys aren't compatible sexually. Different people have different preferences. Maybe you did something that she perceived as weird. Maybe she's just used to a certain type of sex and sex with you wasn't particularly inspiring for her. Maybe she found it boring - but another girl will find the exact same kind of sex exciting and will come crawling back for more.
So fear not - remember the #1 rule about not getting too attached. It didn't work out. Let it go and keep hunting for the one you'll be more sexually compatible with.
Now don't get down on yourself and start googling articles on how to make her *** etc... It could just be that you guys aren't compatible sexually. Different people have different preferences. Maybe you did something that she perceived as weird. Maybe she's just used to a certain type of sex and sex with you wasn't particularly inspiring for her. Maybe she found it boring - but another girl will find the exact same kind of sex exciting and will come crawling back for more.
So fear not - remember the #1 rule about not getting too attached. It didn't work out. Let it go and keep hunting for the one you'll be more sexually compatible with.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SirFratserlot
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We didnt have sex because she doesnt put out unless in a relationship and that was her 2nd time sleeping over
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Judging by your post history, you are an attention wh*re.
SirFratserlot
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The first time she invited me over and the second time she just put herself in my bed
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guys he put the "srs" tag you know hes from bodybuilding.com.SirFratserlot said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
plate's_empty
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next time try fingering her butt hole.
SirFratserlot
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Da fuq that got to do with anythingJohnChops said:
Smell The Glove
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Tell her you don't go exclusive with girls you haven't slept with yet.SirFratserlot said: