"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How did you stumble across SoSuave?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At the time, I was actually getting little signs of interest from some HB, so I was all like "MAN MAYBE YOU AREN'T THE PATHETIC LOSER AFTER ALL"! ;)

I then vowed to learn all the secrets and become "good with women". Was bored at work for half a year, so I read almost any article on the board.

SoSuave didn't exactly trigger my newfound success, it merely accelerated my progress a thousandfold.
 
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Sh!t, I've been here so long that I have forgotten how I ended up here in the first place.
 
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On a site I used to moderate someone from here posted a link to Sosuave and I was curious so I clicked that link and soon joined the team and came aboard for the big win.
 
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I originally found SS in 09/01. I was a freshman in college and had never had sex or had a girlfriend. I was looking for ways to get women. By the end of October I had sex for the first time. Then went to study in Germany and totally forgot about this site until 2003. Rejoined under another username and then moved to Chicago forgot about the site again. Came back in May 2007.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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