Anyone care to share how they overcame a big fear in life? No matter how much I do it, I'm still afraid to talk to people I don't know in public. Working in an a male dominated field, and not having too many friends, this has left me single for quite a while. I have trouble finding opportunities that I think many other men have. I get out and do things, but it's always by myself. Maybe someone here has a similar experience. What did you use as your motivation? What steps did you take to overcome your fear?