"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How did you meet your special sweetheart?

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Did you meet her through random daygame approaches?

OLD?

Social circle?

Club/Lounge/Bar?

Did family set you up with her?

Or did you meet your special sweetie elsewhere?

Let's hear it from the successful men so the rest can learn how they met and kept their special lady.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GFella said:
Did you meet her through random daygame approaches?

OLD?

Social circle?

Club/Lounge/Bar?

Did family set you up with her?

Or did you meet your special sweetie elsewhere?

Let's hear it from the successful men so the rest can learn how they met and kept their special lady.
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I met her through family. Come to think of it, she is family!
 
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Approached her at a bar. Became FWB for almost 5 years. Ended up becoming my girlfriend. Pretty happy actually.
 
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