"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how did you hook up w/ your co-worker?

john_1234

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i'm not familiar w/ gaming girls you work w/. sure, i've worked with cuties in the past, but i never hooked up w/ one at work.

it seems so different from the usual route i take because i'm interacting w/ this particular girl for entire shifts. i think i've done okay so far and i sense attraction on her part. any helpful tips/advice to get the flow going w/ my co-worker?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dont mix buisness and pleasure. it turns out bad.
 

john_1234

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i just want to hear some real life experiences from others who successfully hooked up w/ their co-workers.

did you keep some distance from her at work, but game her outside the work environment? how long was it before you hooked up w/ her? you show interest immediately? or did you play it cool and wait some time? did the phone ever come into the equation? or was it face to face interaction the entire time? etc. i'm totally unfamiliar w/ this type of situation and just want to hear some success stories
 
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