"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how did you hook up w/ your co-worker?

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i'm not familiar w/ gaming girls you work w/. sure, i've worked with cuties in the past, but i never hooked up w/ one at work.

it seems so different from the usual route i take because i'm interacting w/ this particular girl for entire shifts. i think i've done okay so far and i sense attraction on her part. any helpful tips/advice to get the flow going w/ my co-worker?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dont mix buisness and pleasure. it turns out bad.
 
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i just want to hear some real life experiences from others who successfully hooked up w/ their co-workers.

did you keep some distance from her at work, but game her outside the work environment? how long was it before you hooked up w/ her? you show interest immediately? or did you play it cool and wait some time? did the phone ever come into the equation? or was it face to face interaction the entire time? etc. i'm totally unfamiliar w/ this type of situation and just want to hear some success stories
 
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