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That's how I've handled divorces.I handled it by not getting married.
I never knew that you were married. Explains a lot given your advice and genius I've recognized over the years.That's how I've handled divorces.
When young and dumb. The good old days. At least then I could claim ignorance Luz!As for non-marital breakups, some better than others.
No, I was saying that I have never married. I was saying I've done the same thing that you have done. Not getting married is the best way to handle a divorce. I am glad that I have not married. If I had married, I likely would have gotten divorced.I never knew that you were married. Explains a lot given your advice and genius I've recognized over the years.
When young and dumb. The good old days. At least then I could claim ignorance Luz!
Totally misunderstood. I'm tired lulz. Same. Spent ages on game. If I was blue pill and unaware of female nature, I would have been divorce raped and obliterated.No, I was saying that I have never married. I was saying I've done the same thing that you have done. Not getting married is the best way to handle a divorce. I am glad that I have not married. If I had married, I likely would have gotten divorced.
Non-marital breakups stink too.
When I think about the United States, no fault divorce emerged in the early 1970s. That's 50 years now. All Generation X (1965-1981 births) and Millennial (1982-1996 births) grew up in a time of either rapidly escalating divorces and or an era of divorce as common yet an established practice. That covers everyone under the age of 56 at this point.If I was blue pill and unaware of female nature, I would have been divorce raped and obliterated.
Again, knowing is half the battle. I can't excuse ignorance nor stupidity even if everyone is playing house.
Mrs Blackbird was born 1983. We divorce in October. Her parents split when she was 5 afterI know of early 1980s born Millennials who were the product of divorced parents who've already experienced their 1st divorces as adults.
When divorce happens, the relationship has typically been in zombie status for a while. Non-marital relationships typically have a shorter zombie phase, if they even have one at all.I think because my divorce was probably a year overdue when it finally got filed.
MTR made a skit with his "foreign gf" plugging a based chick's content. MTR is less jerry springer. More based. Points out other cultures that are better than the west. That's all of them. The problem is that they become western and even the friend group who is foreign but been westernized LONGER adopts the dumpster fire culture.When I think about the United States, no fault divorce emerged in the early 1970s. That's 50 years now. All Generation X (1965-1981 births) and Millennial (1982-1996 births) grew up in a time of either rapidly escalating divorces and or an era of divorce as common yet an established practice. That covers everyone under the age of 56 at this point.
I know of early 1980s born Millennials who were the product of divorced parents who've already experienced their 1st divorces as adults.
"Playing house" as you put it is usually often a bad idea in Western nations. If you're a man in the United States consider having children with a woman, it is more likely than not that you and the mother of the child will not be in a romantic relationship by the time that first child turns 18.
You nailed it. I was checked out by the time I filed the thing. The relationship, in its truest sense, had ended long before. The only thing left was the legal status.When divorce happens, the relationship has typically been in zombie status for a while. Non-marital relationships typically have a shorter zombie phase, if they even have one at all.
When a marriage reaches zombie phase, that's typically when the infidelity happens. Another common path is when the zombie stage occurs, divorce is filed and one or both of the partners starts a new relationship during the 3-6 month period from divorce filing until divorce finalization.
I think marriages linger longer than non-marital relationships because of the legal aspect. I also think people tend to stick out marriages a little longer because of the whole wedding thing. A lot of weddings are a big fuccking deal, costly, and it takes a long time to plan them. Women file for divorce much more frequently than men, so you being a filer of the divorce was statistically less common.You nailed it. I was checked out by the time I filed the thing. The relationship, in its truest sense, had ended long before. The only thing left was the legal status.
Same here. When you sense a relationship is over, its best to move on. A new canvas is much easier to work with than one that has been in and out of the dumpster.You nailed it. I was checked out by the time I filed the thing. The relationship, in its truest sense, had ended long before. The only thing left was the legal status.
@eli77 this^^They get A LOT easier as you get older as you learn not to take any s*it, cut your losses, and use IDGAF. NEVER put your assets in play with any woman. Ask any number of SS members who went through a divorce. The man *always* loses in family court.
As you age, you learn to take care of YOU first unless you have kids then they're #1 until they become adults then it's back to you being #1 again.