How did you handle virgin girls?

[lizardking82]

Have any of you guys deflowered a girl? How did you handle it, if yes? Cause LOL at me as much as you want (I am LOLing at myself) but I got two virgin girls that are willing to have sex, but I mainly have had sex with non-virgin girls so... I think I would appreciate any bit of information some guys here could give me.

Like, one of the girls came to my place, we had done almost everything except for sex and were like almost there, I was hard and everything, she opened her legs, but damn it, she's so tense that the moment I try to go inside of her, she just very nervously and maybe uncontrollingly/unwillingly tries to push me away with her body. This, on the other hand, causes me to lose my erection and it is so ****in' hard to get it back.

 

[Masculinity]

Have any of you guys deflowered a girl? How did you handle it, if yes? Cause LOL at me as much as you want (I am LOLing at myself) but I got two virgin girls that are willing to have sex, but I mainly have had sex with non-virgin girls so... I think I would appreciate any bit of information some guys here could give me.

Following this thread. Never had a virgin, but I'd love to hear a success story from you, OP!

 

[Serenity]

Twice, my first girlfriend and my current girlfriend. My first girlfriend wanted it, a lot. So it was pretty much no effort on my part, it was my first time too. She was the one in doubt if I really wanted it and worried she pressured me into it, I of course wanted to fvck.

With my current girlfriend it was different. She kinda wanted to but she was anxious about her first time, didn't feel ready. Basically I just kept asking about it, said she can't imagine how it is before trying it, which is true. I didn't put hard pressure on her when asking, I just casually asked when it was getting hot between us. She told me no a lot of times, I said it was ok and left it alone for that date. I saw her a couple of times every week, most of the times I'd ask if she was ready. After about 7 weeks we were in bed, I started undressing her and she didn't stop me. Just to be safe I asked if it was ok, she said yes. So it happened, she liked it and now she just loves to fvck. Not surprising as I give her multiple orgasms every time.

You gotta take charge their first time, especially if you already have experience. Ask her if it's good, go easier if it's not or stop if it still isn't good. Tell her to relax and that you'll start carefully, anything you can think of to make her feel comfortable. It's normal to be very nervous the first time, it really does help if the other person tells you it's gonna be fine.

I don't know what to do about your fading erection, I've never had that problem unless I'm drunk af. I always get hard when there's even a potential opportunity to fvck.

 

[AlphaNate]

Well, she's not a virgin anymore.

 

[Reykhel]

Plenty of lube and a shoehorn.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Twice, my first girlfriend and my current girlfriend. My first girlfriend wanted it, a lot. So it was pretty much no effort on my part, it was my first time too. She was the one in doubt if I really wanted it and worried she pressured me into it, I of course wanted to fvck.

With my current girlfriend it was different. She kinda wanted to but she was anxious about her first time, didn't feel ready. Basically I just kept asking about it, said she can't imagine how it is before trying it, which is true. I didn't put hard pressure on her when asking, I just casually asked when it was getting hot between us. She told me no a lot of times, I said it was ok and left it alone for that date. I saw her a couple of times every week, most of the times I'd ask if she was ready. After about 7 weeks we were in bed, I started undressing her and she didn't stop me. Just to be safe I asked if it was ok, she said yes. So it happened, she liked it and now she just loves to fvck. Not surprising as I give her multiple orgasms every time.

You gotta take charge their first time, especially if you already have experience. Ask her if it's good, go easier if it's not or stop if it still isn't good. Tell her to relax and that you'll start carefully, anything you can think of to make her feel comfortable. It's normal to be very nervous the first time, it really does help if the other person tells you it's gonna be fine.

I don't know what to do about your fading erection, I've never had that problem unless I'm drunk af. I always get hard when there's even a potential opportunity to fvck.

A "B" can fix that "always get hard" for you. Say you one-it is a "B" who is hellbent upon showing a stronger frame than you and putting herself over you. She rejects you and delays you on 85% of your sexual advances. You are one-itised to her and don't deal with other women. Over time your body will be trained to not respond because nothing is going to happen as per the "B"'s wishes.

That's why it's so important that we focus on women who are heavily into us.

 

[Serenity]

A "B" can fix that "always get hard" for you. Say you one-it is a "B" who is hellbent upon showing a stronger frame than you and putting herself over you. She rejects you and delays you on 85% of your sexual advances. You are one-itised to her and don't deal with other women. Over time your body will be trained to not respond because nothing is going to happen as per the "B"'s wishes.

That's why it's so important that we focus on women who are heavily into us.

If a woman was this determined not to fvck me I would lose my interest long before my erection, thankfully. To have oneitis for such a woman is truly insane.

 

[lizardking82]

If a woman was this determined not to fvck me I would lose my interest long before my erection, thankfully. To have oneitis for such a woman is truly insane.

I am only talking about a woman that has shown heavy interesting in having sex with me in this case, meaning she has come over, has given bj, allowed me to touch her everywhere, wants to see me on a regular basis for now, gets horny by just smelling my neck and me in general. If she was not interested, I agree with you that I would lose interest in a matter of minutes/hours probably.