"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How Did You Get Out of the FRIEND ZONE?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
Fitch, tell me why you are typing long ass posts to reply to something totally insignificant to this topic and to a post someone made 10 entries up?

Two possibilities:

1) You get off on flaming people and looking cool to your e-buddies on a forum.

2) You did not hear about this wonderful breakthrough called the PRIVATE MESSAGE.

Cheers.
Wrong, wrong -- WRONG.

Have you ever considered choice #3: public humilation?

Am I expecting too much from you?

"..to a post 10 entries up."

I had more to add.
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"1) You get off on flaming people and looking cool to your e-buddies on a forum."

No, no. Nothing like that. I don't need on-line friends. I am sure a man by the name of Freud symp. you? (If you studied him, and his psychological theories, you know what I am talking about -- something along the lines of self-projection).

But I get this adreline rush when I ever I have a heated debate or argument. But, only when there is a purpose.

This does not apply.


Now answer this question:

What is your 'pure drive' off typing your "long ass post?"

It is not my problem if briinging Mack 86 to justice is more popular then your thread. You do not have to take it out on me. I am just throwing in my 2 cents.

This is probably why you remain in the friendzone!
 
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