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How did you get an ex wife to sleep with you?

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I've hit a bit of a vengeful, angry streak.

I shouldn't be proud of it, but I am using the hate to motivate (cheesy line, but applies well here). Note, this is not done in any effort to get the ex back. She is long gone. But, there is a petty side of me I suppose, that thinks that if you were able to make enough improvements in your life to get your ex wife to sleep with you, that would be the mark of some progress.

What did you do? What improvements did you make for her to take notice?
 

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I get it. It's a power/ego thing, and that's ok. But be warned, you better have some intestinal fortitude, so you don't get wrapped up in your feelings again, which is why she left you in the first place.

Anyways, to f*ck her again, all you have to do (easier said than done) is raise your value in her eyes to where it was. She will always feel a level of safety with you (unless you did some creepy twisted stuff) because she's already f*cked you a bunch of times. Plus, in chick-speak that would be an easy explanation to someone to still keep her self-esteem...I mean sleeping with an 'ex' just "happened" right? It makes sense to them in their little minds.
 

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Its easier to bang her if you get at least one new fine chick your banging. Many of our ex like to show they still have the top spot and will try to fvck... You dont have to pursue her.
 

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why you want to do that?
ex wife wanting you back is a ego trip yes, but that won't happen anytime soon, the best you can do is have a damn better life then before and show up with better woman
 

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I am banging a chick, but to be honest, she is a 6, and my ex is a 7.5. Nothing to flaunt there.

Goal is get 3 plates going and go from there.
 

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And yeah I guess it would be for an ego boost. Like, I improved myself to the point where you wanted me back.

But also, more so revenge. After 8 years of marriage, the woman brought me a lot of pain.

Again not the most noble reasons, but there they are.
 

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And yeah I guess it would be for an ego boost. Like, I improved myself to the point where you wanted me back.

But also, more so revenge. After 8 years of marriage, the woman brought me a lot of pain.

Again not the most noble reasons, but there they are.
I can see that, nut in her face and then walk out, never to return or respond again. That'd feel liberating I think. Hand her a towel, here, wipe yourself off. Nut right in her eye, lol.
 

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I wouldn't sleep with my ex-wife for a million dollars.

Just like I wouldn't be friends with someone who kicked me in the nuts
Well, I can only give you my own experience.

I had this chick way back when, that drove me to this site. I literally googled, "What does it mean when your girlfriend says she needs space?", hahaha. Anyways, I finally got her back, but then of course, I went AFC and got dumped again. When I finally got my head out of my ass, she started coming back to me from time to time and I was like, man, I just want to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super fine looking back on it now, but I had a lack of options, and her ass was off the charts hot.

So I was finally able to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super into it, so that part sucked, but I nailed her ass good doggystyle for a long time, hair pulling, with my thumb up her *******, pulled it out, spun her around and blew my load all over her face and titties. And it was a huge one too, shot all over her. I got up, cleaned up and walked out of there, never spoke to her again.

I used to see her around some, and it was SO MUCH better than before. Finally felt like I had that 'closure' that so many say they need. She still didn't want me, or ever ask me to come back, and I certainly advise other guys to NEVER have sex with a woman who doesn't want it as bad as you do, but the point of that is to never be AFC in the first place so it won't matter. But after my transfer from blue to red pill, every time I saw her after that I just remember my c*m dripping off her face when she walked in the bathroom to clean up, and it was great. She had never let me do that before, and it ended up being my parting gift.
 

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Well, I can only give you my own experience.

I had this chick way back when, that drove me to this site. I literally googled, "What does it mean when your girlfriend says she needs space?", hahaha. Anyways, I finally got her back, but then of course, I went AFC and got dumped again. When I finally got my head out of my ass, she started coming back to me from time to time and I was like, man, I just want to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super fine looking back on it now, but I had a lack of options, and her ass was off the charts hot.

So I was finally able to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super into it, so that part sucked, but I nailed her ass good doggystyle for a long time, hair pulling, with my thumb up her *******, pulled it out, spun her around and blew my load all over her face and titties. And it was a huge one too, shot all over her. I got up, cleaned up and walked out of there, never spoke to her again.

I used to see her around some, and it was SO MUCH better than before. Finally felt like I had that 'closure' that so many say they need. She still didn't want me, or ever ask me to come back, and I certainly advise other guys to NEVER have sex with a woman who doesn't want it as bad as you do, but the point of that is to never be AFC in the first place so it won't matter. But after my transfer from blue to red pill, every time I saw her after that I just remember my c*m dripping off her face when she walked in the bathroom to clean up, and it was great. She had never let me do that before, and it ended up being my parting gift.
She let you *** in her face or you just did it?

So she never did want it that bad? Used you for validation and consistency. Excellent ending though. Did you get with better females after her?
 

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She let you *** in her face or you just did it?
I just did it. It sort of just happened. I meant to blow on her, but I shot it all over her sort of by accident. I didn't hold it up to her like a porn shoot or anything.

Excellent ending though. Did you get with better females after her?
Well yeah, this was like 15 years ago.
 

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I just did it. It sort of just happened. I meant to blow on her, but I shot it all over her sort of by accident. I didn't hold it up to her like a porn shoot or anything.


Well yeah, this was like 15 years ago.
She didnt want you after better females?
 

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you have to nut up and bite that bitter bullet of moving on and getting a situation that was better than when you were with her..

its hard especially when you have no other options, but usually what happens when ur life is better she'll wana bang but you lost interest
 

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She didnt want you after better females?
Maybe, I don't know. Never really saw her enough.

But yeah, me going out and getting a life without her is what got her back the 2nd time.

Yeah, but she didn't take half your money, demand vaginamony, and use your kids against you.

Apples and oranges.
Good point.
 

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Maybe, I don't know. Never really saw her enough.

But yeah, me going out and getting a life without her is what got her back the 2nd time.


Good point.
I guess it didnt matter. No desire to eat shyt sandwhiches.
 

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I am banging a chick, but to be honest, she is a 6, and my ex is a 7.5. Nothing to flaunt there.

Goal is get 3 plates going and go from there.
its younger? if so she would be already pissed

again it won't happen anytime soon, and before she even notice she will be ridding a lot, again forget the ***** and move on, she will look at you again in a couple of years and if you are doing anything right, she will bitter she let you go
 

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Well, I can only give you my own experience.

I had this chick way back when, that drove me to this site. I literally googled, "What does it mean when your girlfriend says she needs space?", hahaha. Anyways, I finally got her back, but then of course, I went AFC and got dumped again. When I finally got my head out of my ass, she started coming back to me from time to time and I was like, man, I just want to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super fine looking back on it now, but I had a lack of options, and her ass was off the charts hot.

So I was finally able to f*ck her one last time. She wasn't super into it, so that part sucked, but I nailed her ass good doggystyle for a long time, hair pulling, with my thumb up her *******, pulled it out, spun her around and blew my load all over her face and titties. And it was a huge one too, shot all over her. I got up, cleaned up and walked out of there, never spoke to her again.

I used to see her around some, and it was SO MUCH better than before. Finally felt like I had that 'closure' that so many say they need. She still didn't want me, or ever ask me to come back, and I certainly advise other guys to NEVER have sex with a woman who doesn't want it as bad as you do, but the point of that is to never be AFC in the first place so it won't matter. But after my transfer from blue to red pill, every time I saw her after that I just remember my c*m dripping off her face when she walked in the bathroom to clean up, and it was great. She had never let me do that before, and it ended up being my parting gift.
Epic man, definitely wins the internet today. I'm impressed, always something I wanted to do but never really got the opportunity, at least I never pushed (pardon the pun) all that hard for it. I've always wondered how f*cking cool that would have been.
 

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Don't waste ur time planning or even thinking abt this.

Better plan on generating a social presence.
 
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