"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I guess the Rational Male (1st and 2nd) was the real first reliable source (and last) for me to really understand the idea... no really another book or source needed. It's all there even if you dont like some parts of it... with practice and observation you just start to see yourself the things that you already knew but felt shame for thinking so... maybe if you're 20yrs old it would be harder to you to swallow it or you can understand it wrong

Anyway we all born to it, many of us see it around early in life but feel blame for these thoughts thinking that if we'll let it go we'll become enemy number one (me at least felt this)... which is true to some degree... if you know how the female-Male system works what's next? It's not all about women it is much more deeper then that because at the top stands a man and not a woman, and he would prefer that you wont know all this stuff. Not conspiracy, reallity

Reminds me the Fountainhead by any rand
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess the Rational Male (1st and 2nd) was the real first reliable source (and last) for me to really understand the idea... no really another book or source needed. It's all there even if you dont like some parts of it... with practice and observation you just start to see yourself the things that you already knew but felt shame for thinking so... maybe if you're 20yrs old it would be harder to you to swallow it or you can understand it wrong

Anyway we all born to it, many of us see it around early in life but feel blame for these thoughts thinking that if we'll let it go we'll become enemy number one (me at least felt this)... which is true to some degree... if you know how the female-Male system works what's next? It's not all about women it is much more deeper then that because at the top stands a man and not a woman, and he would prefer that you wont know all this stuff. Not conspiracy, reallity

Reminds me the Fountainhead by any rand
So like we already figured out on this site, the women were used to control ( monitor, manipulate ) a majority ( 95% ) of men and there are other men who benefit from the arrangement.

This is a systematic blue print and design. Attempts to bypass this design is highly discouraged, and as we know women are prone to being able to being "shamed" into doing things. Treating her man better than the system wants him to be treated will lead to her being harassed by her peers.
 

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I guess the Rational Male (1st and 2nd) was the real first reliable source (and last) for me to really understand the idea... no really another book or source needed. It's all there even if you dont like some parts of it... with practice and observation you just start to see yourself the things that you already knew but felt shame for thinking so... maybe if you're 20yrs old it would be harder to you to swallow it or you can understand it wrong

Anyway we all born to it, many of us see it around early in life but feel blame for these thoughts thinking that if we'll let it go we'll become enemy number one (me at least felt this)... which is true to some degree... if you know how the female-Male system works what's next? It's not all about women it is much more deeper then that because at the top stands a man and not a woman, and he would prefer that you wont know all this stuff. Not conspiracy, reallity

Reminds me the Fountainhead by any rand
yes, what's next now that one knows
 

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So like we already figured out on this site, the women were used to control ( monitor, manipulate ) a majority ( 95% ) of men and there are other men who benefit from the arrangement.

This is a systematic blue print and design. Attempts to bypass this design is highly discouraged, and as we know women are prone to being able to being "shamed" into doing things. Treating her man better than the system wants him to be treated will lead to her being harassed by her peers.
So by understanding this design, I truly value women who are aware of it, and do what they can to protect their man from it and enable him to achieve more. They exist, but they are not many...
 

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So like we already figured out on this site, the women were used to control ( monitor, manipulate ) a majority ( 95% ) of men and there are other men who benefit from the arrangement.

This is a systematic blue print and design. Attempts to bypass this design is highly discouraged, and as we know women are prone to being able to being "shamed" into doing things. Treating her man better than the system wants him to be treated will lead to her being harassed by her peers.
This is actually pretty crazy
Like taking the bible and summarize it into one sentence

No exit but one

The only thing I still wonder about is shaming
What the mechanism behind it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is actually pretty crazy
Like taking the bible and summarize it into one sentence

No exit but one

The only thing I still wonder about is shaming
What the mechanism behind it
Not sure. But it works due to their psychology and the way that they look at things.
 

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I grew up with it. My father wholly embodies what is now referred to as TRP. All the men on my father’s side of the family were also that way.

So as a woman I understand the dynamic and WHY it works.

I found the forum here 5 years ago while searching for information on BPD.
 

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Not sure. But it works due to their psychology and the way that they look at things.
Like, let's say, if we were animals in the jungle
If im a smaller animal i would develop my technique of fighting and thinking to try and beat bigger and stronger enemies over surviving. in the worst scenario - I'll die

The things that you could do in the jungle you cannot use in social environment, otherwise you'll be shamed or punished, even if the cause of your actions is non the less surviving like in the jungle, but the outcomes are more mental then physical, like loss of status and respect, worst scenario- suicide, prison, delusion, virginity

This is pretty crazy

No exit
 

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Like, let's say, if we were animals in the jungle
If im a smaller animal i would develop my technique of fighting and thinking to try and beat bigger and stronger enemies over surviving. in the worst scenario - I'll die

The things that you could do in the jungle you cannot use in social environment, otherwise you'll be shamed or punished, even if the cause of your actions is non the less surviving like in the jungle, but the outcomes are more mental then physical, like loss of status and respect, worst scenario- suicide, prison, delusion, virginity

This is pretty crazy

No exit
Deal with it.
 

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I grew up with it. My father wholly embodies what is now referred to as TRP. All the men on my father’s side of the family were also that way.

So as a woman I understand the dynamic and WHY it works.

I found the forum here 5 years ago while searching for information on BPD.
TRP? the red pill, correct?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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