"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How did this happen?

Rooney

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I recently landed in the friends zone and I have no idea why. Now I know I'm ****y (very) and funny, and I'm also good looking. Now I am pretty much what most posts here tell you to be and I do it naturally. Nothing forced. I don't even have one-itis although I was aiming at this one girl in particular.

Now what went wrong? According to me and the DJ bible I did almost everything right. And what do I get? Friends zone.

Could anyone please offer me some advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ascalon

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You enter the friend zone when you don't show your sexuality enough,or in other words I think you havent acted when needed (for example the kiss tells much more about you and your intentions that talking in a ****Y... and FuNnY way).
The thing that makes us different from the women is the action.Instead of talkig sometimes you just have to act.
I will be glad if you give us more details about your story. :)
 

Lompa

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Kino is the key. Give her a touch/brush on the hips, that will do the work.
 

Rooney

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I guess I never really did any full on kino. Things were too complicated untill recently (see my other thread). I was always jokin around with her teasing and stuff. ****y + funny all the time. Guess I never really showed my intentions fully. Other complications probably helped the friends zone cause.

I told her I thought she was hot while slipping into the conversation that some other chick found me attractive :p

So she might think differently of me now. What do you guys think?
 

Raikojo17

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Rooney said:
I guess I never really did any full on kino. Things were too complicated untill recently (see my other thread). I was always jokin around with her teasing and stuff. ****y + funny all the time. Guess I never really showed my intentions fully. Other complications probably helped the friends zone cause.

I told her I thought she was hot while slipping into the conversation that some other chick found me attractive :p

So she might think differently of me now. What do you guys think?
yes, but read her actions. if she looks like she is tryin to talk to you more and likes u more than she thinks differently of you. remember, by more sexual with her, just telling her stuff wont make her like u. u have to touch her, show her that she looks sexy to you. just CF isnt enough, even her guys friends pull that stuff all the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gymshorts

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maybe its nothing that you did, maybe she just isnt interested in you.
move on.
 

ryannath

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^^^Gymshorts is right. Maybe her cat died, maybe she is insecure, maybe she thinks you would play her, etc. Who knows. She just is not interested. Nothing you did wrong maybe.
 
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