"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How did this happen?

Rooney

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I recently landed in the friends zone and I have no idea why. Now I know I'm ****y (very) and funny, and I'm also good looking. Now I am pretty much what most posts here tell you to be and I do it naturally. Nothing forced. I don't even have one-itis although I was aiming at this one girl in particular.

Now what went wrong? According to me and the DJ bible I did almost everything right. And what do I get? Friends zone.

Could anyone please offer me some advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ascalon

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You enter the friend zone when you don't show your sexuality enough,or in other words I think you havent acted when needed (for example the kiss tells much more about you and your intentions that talking in a ****Y... and FuNnY way).
The thing that makes us different from the women is the action.Instead of talkig sometimes you just have to act.
I will be glad if you give us more details about your story. :)
 

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Kino is the key. Give her a touch/brush on the hips, that will do the work.
 

Rooney

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I guess I never really did any full on kino. Things were too complicated untill recently (see my other thread). I was always jokin around with her teasing and stuff. ****y + funny all the time. Guess I never really showed my intentions fully. Other complications probably helped the friends zone cause.

I told her I thought she was hot while slipping into the conversation that some other chick found me attractive :p

So she might think differently of me now. What do you guys think?
 

Raikojo17

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Rooney said:
I guess I never really did any full on kino. Things were too complicated untill recently (see my other thread). I was always jokin around with her teasing and stuff. ****y + funny all the time. Guess I never really showed my intentions fully. Other complications probably helped the friends zone cause.

I told her I thought she was hot while slipping into the conversation that some other chick found me attractive :p

So she might think differently of me now. What do you guys think?
yes, but read her actions. if she looks like she is tryin to talk to you more and likes u more than she thinks differently of you. remember, by more sexual with her, just telling her stuff wont make her like u. u have to touch her, show her that she looks sexy to you. just CF isnt enough, even her guys friends pull that stuff all the time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gymshorts

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maybe its nothing that you did, maybe she just isnt interested in you.
move on.
 

ryannath

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^^^Gymshorts is right. Maybe her cat died, maybe she is insecure, maybe she thinks you would play her, etc. Who knows. She just is not interested. Nothing you did wrong maybe.
 
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