"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how did i respond to her little test?

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duke104

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i was talking to a girl today and she tried testing me with one of her little games. she does this all the time expecting me to give her some kiss answer. heres how it went down:

her: can i borrow your car tomorrow to get food?
me: nope
her: fine ill walk. if i get kidnapped or raped its your fault
me: fine by me
her: wow whatever
me: im not falling for your little game

i know shes trying to test me to see my reaction. did i respond the right way or should i have said something else?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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has she borrowed your car before? or why is she so comfortable asking? Even the girl I dated for 6 years never asked me to let her borrow my car. She knew better ;)
 
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duke104

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no she hasnt. ive only known her for a little over 2 months...
 
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exactly dont tell her you know shes testing and honestly just take her your not her chauffeur don't get me wrong but shell prob be grateful for it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You did the right thing, you shouldn't have taken her unless she did something to earn it. You shouldn't have told her you knew she was testing you though. Girls rarely consciously test guys, it's much more of an unconscious thing that all girls naturally do to test guys. You could also use opportunities like these to throw in negs. Like when she said "I'll get raped" you could have been like "Don't worry, no one is going to rape you." If you just straight out say "no" you may get unwanted reactions. She may feel awkward, you'll come off to cold, or a bunch of other things. Your ultimate goal should be to say "No" while still being interesting, playful, positive, charismatic, etc etc
 
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^ I went with a lower grade, yet still passing, because he had plenty to work with to flirt, increase tension, tease, etc.
 
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duke104 said:
her: can i borrow your car tomorrow to get food?
me: nope
her: fine ill walk. if i get kidnapped or raped its your fault
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You should have ended it there. Just turn and walk away, if she wants to be melodramatic she can do that on her own while you have better things to do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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