how did i respond to her little test?

[duke104]

i was talking to a girl today and she tried testing me with one of her little games. she does this all the time expecting me to give her some kiss answer. heres how it went down:

her: can i borrow your car tomorrow to get food?
me: nope
her: fine ill walk. if i get kidnapped or raped its your fault
me: fine by me
her: wow whatever
me: im not falling for your little game

i know shes trying to test me to see my reaction. did i respond the right way or should i have said something else?

 

[2crudedudes]

has she borrowed your car before? or why is she so comfortable asking? Even the girl I dated for 6 years never asked me to let her borrow my car. She knew better

 

[duke104]

no she hasnt. ive only known her for a little over 2 months...

 

[hopelessguy]

her: wow whatever
me: im not falling for your little game

Protip: dont actually tell a girl what you're doing as you're doing it.

 

[Appoloin]

exactly dont tell her you know shes testing and honestly just take her your not her chauffeur don't get me wrong but shell prob be grateful for it

 

[Hakuna]

You did the right thing, you shouldn't have taken her unless she did something to earn it. You shouldn't have told her you knew she was testing you though. Girls rarely consciously test guys, it's much more of an unconscious thing that all girls naturally do to test guys. You could also use opportunities like these to throw in negs. Like when she said "I'll get raped" you could have been like "Don't worry, no one is going to rape you." If you just straight out say "no" you may get unwanted reactions. She may feel awkward, you'll come off to cold, or a bunch of other things. Your ultimate goal should be to say "No" while still being interesting, playful, positive, charismatic, etc etc

 

[Adonis PUA Trainer]

Grade - D+

 

[Dubh]

grade-c for not giving in

 

[Adonis PUA Trainer]

^ I went with a lower grade, yet still passing, because he had plenty to work with to flirt, increase tension, tease, etc.

 

[Captain]

her: can i borrow your car tomorrow to get food?
me: nope
her: fine ill walk. if i get kidnapped or raped its your fault

You should have ended it there. Just turn and walk away, if she wants to be melodramatic she can do that on her own while you have better things to do.